Where Does The Good Go?

First and foremost, HAPPY 7/11 👌🏽

Biiiiiiiiiiiiiiitch! Remember me?! I’m not even going to bother with providing y’all with an excuse. She’s back and thanks for being here! 🌸

It takes me a second to get over stuff. I’m definitely that “I’ll get over it, but let me be dramatic about it for a second” type of girl. Charlotte York once said that it should take you half the duration that anything took to get over it if it goes bad. For instance, if you took a month to do something and it doesn’t work out or it goes awry, you should take no more than 2 weeks to dwell on it and get over it. I’ve come to realize that that’s kind of bullshit. I know! I never thought I’d come to a point in life where I’d disagree with any knowledge imparted by the SATC ladies, but everyone should be on their own timeline. I’ve also come to realize that the idea of “closure” is such a TV made up word. That’s not a thing. You learn to let go of whatever idea you had in your head and move past it. You can fight me on this 👐🏽

I’m fine, guys! I’m sorry about the brief hiatus. I was just In My Feelings about this bird. Y’all know my bounce back is like no other. Your texts and messages meant a lot to me 🌸

I don’t believe in throwing people away, at least not anymore. I’ve come to a place where I’ve learned to appreciate the role anyone has ever played in my story. My struggle is dealing with the loss, if you will. The loss of having someone in your life that likes you in THAT way, no matter the length of time. It was nice. It inevitably invites that crippling feeling of loneliness and it’s not a good time. You know, it’s easy to get clouded with thoughts of not being good enough or feeling like a fool. It’s tough shit, but you do come around and realize that although he might’ve been very dreamy, he wasn’t the sun.

I’m the sun ☀️

I’m on that Grey’s Anatomy shit, y’all 😂

I learned a couple of lessons, had so many good laughs, and most importantly gained a really good friend. It was definitely a summer to remember. So, I guess you can say that’s where the good goes.

I do know this for sure…no matter who messed with your heart or how long it takes to recover, you’ll never get through it without your friends (assistants)❤

CURRENT OBSESSION

Everything Is Love ❤ THIS JOINT ALBUM, Y’ALL!! Can you believe?! It’s everything. You hoes can now stream it everywhere!

SONG OF THE MONTH

Summer by Beyoncé and Jay Z! This song is such a summer vibe, guys. It’s literally my favorite song on the album! Treat yaself and take a listen! 👂🏽

I missed y’all! I missed sharing and getting stuff out through this medium. I promise I’ll be back soon! Look at these messages I got after the hiatus. Y’all are a big ass mess 😂

I’m gonna go drink some water now and see where that takes me.

XO,

Carlos 🌸

Feelin’ Some Typa Way

Hello, hello, hello!!

Man, its been a minute! Please forgive me for being such a terrible blogger! I have completely sucked at this! Here’s some quick T about what’s going on in my life!

First of all, can I get a “HALLELOO” for this beautiful weather?! I mean, I feel bad for everyone out there getting sick and all, but I’ve been trying to bust out the jackets, gloves, and scarves all year! HELLO! God knows Texas be playing games with the weather, so, we have to appreciate every second we get of this chilly weather!

As we get closer to the holidays, I just wanted to throw some thangs out there to help make everyone’s lives a little easier while shopping. Especially with that dreadful Black Friday coming up!

1. Be nice! There is nothing worse than dealing with a rude customer OR employee.

2. Wait yo turn! Do not cut in line! Or else YOU will get cut.

3. Read your coupons and understand them thoroughly before you try and use them. It is SO annoying when someone gets to the register and tries to argue about the coupon. Not only do I hate you, but the long ass line of people behind you hates you too!

4. No, you can’t have your coupon back after you use it. DON’T BE GREEDY!

5. Please get off of your phone when it’s your turn to check out. You’re not that important.

6. Control your kids. I understand if your infant is screaming bloody murder, you can’t control that sometimes, but the walking ones…uh-uh…get them together.

7. Don’t steal. Just don’t do it!

8. Throwing a tantrum will only make you look tacky and you WILL get talked about when you leave. I’m talking about you grown bitches out there throwing tantrums! Have some class.

9. Read the promotion signs carefully. You’ll make everyone’s lives easier.

10. Just because it’s Fall/Winter doesn’t mean you can’t wear some color! Spice up your life! It’s not all about browns and blacks!

Follow these simple suggestions and TRUST you will have a better holiday experience 🙂

Speaking of experiences…I’ve been experiencing something real cute lately! I’m not one to kiss and tell, but this guy has me feelin’ some typa way 🙂 He’s so adorable, kind, and loves to drink! Umm…HALLELOO! That’s all I’m going to say about this hot topic! 🙂

Another experience! I’M A CRUNKLE!! My beautiful baby sister, Nancy,  gave birth to my adorable nephew! His name is Jacob Alexander Castro! I’m going to spoil him rotten and buy him noisy toys 🙂

I could not be more excited about the holidays! Even though I get crazy busy with work and finals, the holiday cheer never gets overlooked by me! I love the weather, the decorations, Shiner Holiday Cheer, and the music! Speaking of! If you haven’t picked up your copy of Kelly Clarkson’s Wrapped In Red album, umm jump on that! It is SO good! By the way, I can’t believe she’s pregnant! Congrats, Kelly and Brandon!

One last topic, ARTPOP. Are you guys as obsessed with this album as I am?! HELLO! It’s like I have a new favorite song every other day! Currently I can’t stop listening to Fashion! I just want to chill at a posh lounge in the gayborhood and sip on a vodka water while listening to this song. Which is SO unlike me because y’all know I like to turn up when I’m out. The next song I’m obsessed with is Venus. I mean, DON’T YOU KNOW MY ASS IS FAMOUS?! My least favorite song, Jewels & Drugs. I just don’t get it. Thoughts?!

Thank you guys for reading! Let me know what you’re thinking! I missed writing, and I promise to keep it up!

Love,

Carlos